Remember that sex offenders, sexual sadist and rapists specialize in people like you and I, so called normal people. They live for the idea of "getting through" to us and our children. Think of them as lions or wolves. Once a prey has wandered into their hunting territory, they make the prey do certain things that would make the prey easier to be killed. There is another type of human predator that behave more like an alligator where they camouflage themselves until the prey wanders into their hunting territory, gets close enough before the predator pounces and takes the prey (victim) down by brute force—imagine what an alligator or lion does, then replace the gazelle or wildebeest and predator with human counterparts in human situations and environments. Now calculate your odds for survival once you have wandered into their hunting grounds and they have you in their crosshairs. That’s why you best chance for survival lies in you staying away from those hunting grounds. And the only way to do so is to not choose the behaviors of victims they target. And if you have to wander into that territory, the best you can do is to stay alert. When it happens and you, the victim is in the grasp of the sexual predator or sadist, you, like the gazelle, Will thrash about, you will fight. And by Job, you will fight. But the sexual predator or sexual sadist is like the lion or alligator in that they have perfected what they do, they have spent years preparing for that moment when you fight and thrash about. Your best bet is to stay away from their deadly traps and grasps.

Never write to someone who has made you feel uncomfortable or scared. Stop communicating with someone who has said something you thought was eerie, the slightest eerie—even if they retract or recant what they said and apologize or resume normal conversation as if they never said a thing. Remember, you only get one chance to avoid becoming their prey. They may be probing and testing your tolerance and limits. They may want to have the same conversation over and over—the same fantasy. Remember, the serial sadist, rapist or killer is driven by fantasy--a fantasy they have been working on for years. They have been working on their violent and aberrant fantasies from a very young age.

Do not fuel their desires. Once you have fueled their sick desires and you become the object of such fantasy there is very little you can do. Do not share pictures online. Pictures can be a powerful catalyst After they have seen your picture, they know what the trophy of their perverse desires looks like.